Have You Heard It

I am the first to shy away from the path when someone shouts, "God told me to tell you this!" Ummm why is God so choosy with whom he is speaking with? Do you have to be perfect? Do you have to name your children after books in the Bible? What's up with this world if God is only talking to preachers. Or am I wrong? What if God endlessly talking and you aren't listening?